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Cameroon: Stepmother evicts 13-year-old for liking boys

Cameroon: Stepmother evicts 13-year-old for liking boys

Le quartier Nkolnda
A street in the Nkolnda district of Yaoundé (Photo by Steeve Winner)

A teenager in Yaoundé, Cameroon, thought it was safe to confide in a friend about his sexual attraction to other boys. The next thing he knew, he had been thrown out of the family home by his stepmother while his father looked on.


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By Steeve Winner

The story began on Friday, Feb. 16, in the Nkolnda district of Yaoundé, the capital of Cameroon. Thirteen-year-old student Barleys was walking home with a neighbor, his close friend Joss, age 15. (Both of those names are pseudonyms.)

Barleys lives with his father and his stepmother, who often argued with him.

Une rue dans le quartier Nkolnda (Photo de Steeve Winner)
Nkolnda scene (Photo by Steeve Winner)

After school on Feb. 16, Barleys met at a neighborhood field to play soccer. When the game ended, Barleys and Joss walked home. On the way, they got into a heart-felt conversation. As part of that interchange, Barleys confided to Joss: “I don’t know why, but sometimes I have a feeling of being attracted by men. Is that normal?”

Joss told him, “No. That’s not normal. Boys are supposed to be attracted to girls. If you’re attracted to boys, that means you’re a faggot.”

Barleys did not reply, and Joss fell silent too. Without speaking a word, each boy went to his own house.

In the early evening, Joss went to Barleys’ house to talk more about what Barley had said.

As they were speaking, the stepmother listened. She decided that her stepson was a homosexual and therefore should be evicted from the house. She ordered this innocent 13-year-old boy to leave the home immediately.

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His father heard what she was saying and did nothing to stop her.

Joss was horrified by what had happened. He invited Barleys back to his house. There they talked with Joss’s father, who is an open and accepting man. He agreed that Barleys could spend the night at his home.

The next morning, Joss and his father escorted Barleys back to his family. The two fathers had a long, private conversation. In the end, Barleys’ father agreed to allow his son to return home.

Steeve Winner, the author of this article, is a Cameroonian activist for LGBTI rights who writes under a pseudonym.

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  • It shows that individuals who lack informastion and knowledge are the stupidst of stupid, and that is why the government must be forced to inform people, and that people who are informed and have knowledge should stand up and fight ignorance and stupidity! Governments that claim that homosexuality (or “liking boys”) is unnatural should, in my opinion, be blocked from getting foreign aid or support, or even acknowledgement as a government from other governments! Kids like this young kid in the article has been traumtized for the rest of his existence now, simply because of ignorance on the part of that woman!

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